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Final wishes document

A downloadable form, completion guidance, and a filled example. For values and stories, write a legacy letter instead.

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By End of Life PlannerUpdated

How to complete it

Practical instructions for the day. Leave stories and values for a legacy letter.

Write the ceremony in one or two sentences. Incomplete is fine. Name who should carry the wishes out, with a phone number if you have one. Add pets, keys, and other details people would otherwise have to guess. Point to where related papers live. Don’t attach a will to this sheet. Give a copy to the person you named, or keep it with the rest of the plan.

The form

Practical instructions for the day. A legacy letter is a different document, for stories and values.

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Final wishes document

Not a will. Not a funeral contract. Plain language a family can follow.

Your name

Full name

Date

Month and year

Who should carry these wishes out

Name and relationship

Burial, cremation, or other

Say it plainly so nobody has to guess.

Viewing or body present

Yes, no, or no preference

Ceremony or gathering

How small, where, what you would and would not want

People to notify

Who should be told, and who should make the call

Music, readings, or traditions (optional)

Only if they matter to you

Pets, home, and practical notes

The odd details nobody would think to ask

Where related papers live

Prepaid arrangements, plot papers, or “none”

A completed example

Fictional. Use it to see the level of detail that actually helps — not a script you have to copy.

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Sample final wishes document

Not a will. Not a funeral contract. Plain language a family can follow.

Your name

Margaret Chen

Date

March 2026

Who should carry these wishes out

Ruth Chen, sister — she already knows she is first call

Burial, cremation, or other

Cremation. No viewing. I don’t want a church service.

Viewing or body present

No

Ceremony or gathering

Small lunch somewhere with a garden. Ruth will know who to invite. Keep it under two hours.

People to notify

Ruth first, then my son Sam. Work can wait until the next day.

Music, readings, or traditions (optional)

If anyone wants music, the playlist is in the notes app labeled “garden”.

Pets, home, and practical notes

The cat food is in the laundry cupboard. Sam has a spare key.

Where related papers live

No prepaid funeral. The will is with Ellis & Park on Oak Street.

Help with your wishes and messages

Why these decisions matter is the final wishes guide. Ceremony-only notes are funeral wishes. A legacy letter is not this form.

Next steps

Continue with a related guide, worksheet, or product feature.

  • Final wishesDecide what to include in your final wishes, from a memorial to pet care. Use short examples and a checklist to record what matters to you.
  • Legacy letterWrite a legacy letter with personal prompts, a simple outline, and a fictional example. Share memories, values, and messages your family can keep.
  • Funeral wishesRecord burial or cremation preferences, music, traditions, and gathering details. Tell the people arranging things which wishes matter most.

Fill the form on paper, or keep a living copy in the planner.

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